Release your Oxytocin with a hug this Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s is one of the years more commercialized yet romantic holidays. The article reviews how a simple hug on Valentine’s Day and all days can release oxytocin leading to improved health and well-being.

By Shreekant Vasudhev, Corinne Sundar Rao, and Aaron Morgenstein

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Valentine’s Day marks the most romantic day of the year. For this Hallmark holiday, this country displays our love for each other by spending approximately $25 billion on cards, roses, chocolates, and dinners. Why so much? WTF!

Like one’s dating status on Facebook, the origin of Valentine’s Day is “complicated.” Formal messages or valentines appeared as printed cards in the late 1700s. Today, Hallmark sells about 145 million cards at an average of $5 per card. A day meant to celebrate love is now commercialized so much that we lose sight of what’s most important…the power of a good hug.

Let’s hug it out!

It’s no secret that hugs can be a great source of comfort, but did you know that hugs can also be a source of healing? Oxytocin, sometimes referred to as the “cuddle hormone,” is released when we hug, touch, or engage in other forms of physical intimacy. This hormone has been linked to many beneficial effects on our emotional and physical health, including improved healing.

What is oxytocin?

Not only is oxytocin a female hormone that assists with childbirth, but it also has great effects on our body’s health and well-being. Our bodies naturally produce oxytocin, a potent hormone, and neurotransmitter for both men and women. Beyond childbirth and breastfeeding, oxytocin is released during social bonding with each other. It is a hormone associated with positive emotions such as love, trust, and satisfaction.

The power of oxytocin.

Oxytocin plays a significant role in emotional bonding, reducing stress levels, boosting self-esteem, and healing the body’s wounds.

Studies have shown that oxytocin levels increase when people hug or positively touch each other, which can lead to increased trust and improved relationships. Additionally, oxytocin is believed to play a role in empathy, as it helps us understand the emotions of those around us.

Oxytocin is also linked to stress-reducing effects. Research has found that when oxytocin is released, it reduces levels of the stress hormone cortisol. This action buffers and reduces the physical and psychological effects of stress. Thus, improving self-esteem and helping us feel more connected to others, more trusting of ourselves, and more confident in our abilities. Additionally, oxytocin can also act as a natural mood booster, leading to increased feelings of happiness and satisfaction.

Finally, oxytocin can improve long-term heart health, reduce inflammation, and improve wound healing.

How to increase oxytocin levels on Valentine’s Day?

1)      Giving and receiving hugs.

2)      Hand-holding, cuddling or even spooning.

3)      Gentle massage.

4)   Dance.

5)      And sex and more sex…

Keep the oxytocin flowing.

As physicians, we were trained to be stoic and hold back our emotions and connection with our patients, which easily carries into our home life. Considering the benefits of oxytocin, we should rethink our approach and engagement within our personal lives. Life is challenging, and we know that physicians suffer from depression, anxiety, and burnout greater than other professions. Maybe it’s time to push aside the cards, flowers, and chocolates and give more hugs to our loved ones, not just on Valentine’s Day, but every day. 

Final thoughts

In our materialistic society, we are conditioned to believe that gifts represent our love for each other on Valentine’s Day. Rather than focusing on tangible gifts, we should be more cognizant of how our connection with others affects our emotional and physical well-being. A simple hug is not only free, but it also comes with a release of oxytocin, which money can’t buy.

A simple hug is just what the doctor ordered – today and every day!

***Sreekant Vasudhev is a practicing internist and Vice President of Medical Affairs at Steward Medical Group. He can be reached at or on LinkedIn

***Corinne Sundar Rao is a practicing hospitalist that advocates for physicians to create flexible lifestyles. She can be reached at or on her website at

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